I recently spoke with someone who identifies as demisexual, and they shared with me their journey of discovering and embracing their sexual orientation.
For many years, these individuals struggled to understand why they didn’t experience sexual attraction in the same way as their peers. They felt like something was wrong with them like they were broken or abnormal. They tried to force themselves to feel attraction to people they thought were attractive, but it never worked.
It wasn’t until they stumbled upon the term “demisexual” that everything clicked into place. They learned that demisexuality was a legitimate sexual orientation and that there were other people out there who felt the same way they did. It was a huge relief to know that they weren’t alone and that their experiences were valid.
However, even after discovering their sexual orientation, these individuals still faced challenges. Demisexuality is not well-known or widely understood, which can make it difficult to explain to others. They often have to deal with comments like, “Oh, you’re just picky,” or “You just need to put yourself out there more.”
These comments can be hurtful and dismissive, and it can be challenging to explain to others that demisexuality is not a choice or a preference. It is a genuine sexual orientation that is not dependent on external factors like appearance or age.
Despite the challenges, this individual is proud to identify as demisexual and has found ways to navigate the world as a demisexual person. They have learned to be true to themselves and to seek out communities of people who understand and accept their experiences.
In conclusion, being demisexual is a valid and legitimate sexual orientation that deserves recognition and respect. It can be challenging to navigate a world that often overlooks or dismisses demisexuality, but it is essential to stay true to oneself and to seek out communities of like-minded individuals. By doing so, we can create a more inclusive and accepting society for all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation.